New York - Brazil connection
It takes a big heart!
Not always possible...
But its important not to forgive the actions of a sadist too quickly as that would make them seem acceptable when they are not.
I think you have to forgive in your heart so you get rid of your own anger and pain. You don't even have to let the person know that you forgive them...Just do it for yourself.
Hello anonymous! I would love to know who you are! :)